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19:36:50
minty
the horrible people in horrible relations tend to also be married/dating horrible people
19:36:59
gingerale
And they tire me the heck out. They're stronger than usual because of the new prescription.
19:37:13
minty
because one person THINKS they can change the other person to be not horrible and that ends terribly
19:37:32
gingerale
But you could just go through the list of clubs your uni has and pick whatever looks like maybe your thing and start participating.
19:37:48
minty
or they have low self-esteem. my first husband, i basically married because i didn't want to be alone. ended horribly
19:37:54
gingerale
I like go clubs. They're usually small but have solid communities and accept people outside of the uni as well.
19:38:28
shinmera
I don't wanna be alone either and it seems the older I get the more pressing that problem is
19:40:31
minty
i'm a product of my upbringing. my mom dated an emotionally abusive douche so one of my best 'dating skills' is navigating emotionally abusive douches. i WISH my mom had been alone growing up
19:41:25
shinmera
I grew up being bullied out of the gate, so I just focused on making stuff with computers.
19:42:02
minty
shinmera: it's hard to try and find people when social awkward. especially when a lot of dating apps focus on sex kinks
19:42:27
shinmera
I tried bumble again recently and even five minutes on there makes me so fucking tired
19:43:27
minty
it's like applying for a job. you put in a loooot of effort to try and make a profile for yourself where you seem interesting/cool and then you get nothing in return
19:44:09
minty
gingerale: yeah, i've made some good friends on the public buses when i used to ride the same routes at the same time every day
19:47:09
gingerale
I think I really need to go to bed. My eyes are not agreeing with this staying awakeness.
19:48:02
minty
jesus fucking christ the robot dogs the cops are starting to roll out are gonna start carrying 6.5mm assault rifles on their fucking backs